The straightforward phrase, I love ya. How special and wonderful these words are in building a relationship. The truth is, some people just can't say it comfortably without the words tripping out of their mouths. It can be a real pain to break down and just let out all their feelings to the ones that they truly love and have affection for.
Discovering the power of communication. Without speaking to each other there could be not understanding each other, growing closer, and showing affection. We all should learn how to effectively learn to communicate with each other. It enables us to know what the other party feels and what is needed to make the partnership work.
What are the things that make a relationship work anyway? And yet it is the simple things that build a marriage. Whether it's a relationship between lovers, among family members, friends, office workers, and business partners, the same foundations apply for it to work.
It's good to understand that the quotes on love we all seem to know are there to show us what love can be and not to criticize our relationship. All of us want a love that lasts like we read about in the love quotes for him. But that love is one that's acquired and not just handed to us.
We must learn all three forms of love. Three pillars make up the foundation. These are all needed to build up your marriage. Let us discuss them in detail:
Take the long distance relationship, for instance. It seems that a lot do not work out because they cannot maintain the lines of communicating. In order to combat this they must learn to stay in touch with each other by phone, internet, or mail.
Any form of relationship is a box of chocolates, as Forrest Gump puts it. Each friendship has good and not good points. But the important thing is that we must do our part to bring out the good points of a relationship and down play the bad points.
A marriage cannot long stand if the spouses have given up. The other person needs to sense your feelings for them. Show them kindness, gentleness, sensitivity - anything that shows you care for them. It is imperative that we are there for each other. And we should also learn to give what we have received from our mate. Everyone must do his or her part in a relationship because it's a give and take condition.
Discovering the power of compromise. A relationship that is loving is a relationship that sees its chare of compromise. Not all people are made alike; even if two people are so uncannily similar, there might still exist small differences that could spark an argument.
So get out there and learn to listen to your mate, even if it means talking to a professional. We are can get stressed out with life and sometimes we just do not know how to talk things out. With the pressures of a job and family and relationships and friends it takes a lot to make it all work properly.
